The reality, of course, was more complicated. Marriages, which were also mergers, were potentially explosive moments, and lavish festivities may have diffused some of the tensions that might arise between families over dowry arrangements and other touchy subjects. Although practical matters played a major role in marriage, some rebels insisted on marrying for love. Wedding processions became more elaborate during the Renaissance period. Kuehl in 1995. One being that the marriages were likely arranged which in many cases meant that the relationship between the husband and wife was no more then a formal family tie. The marriages during the Renaissance were usually unstable for two reasons. Marriage was a formal arrangement for political use to climb the social ladder. A few interesting facts, at least to me, about Renaissance weddings: Marriage laws evolved during the Renaissance. During the later Middle Ages, the Catholic Church dominated culture and as a consequence, Renaissance wedding ceremonies were most likely to take place in a chapel or at the church door. by. Kirsti S. Thomas . Love and MarriageDuring the Renaissance, Europeans saw love and marriage as two important, but very different, parts of life. The ways in which people were matched and married was very evident in many of his works as he strove to depict love and the relationships that developed between men and women. Shakespeare also incorporates marriage ideals from the Middle Ages because the setting for the play is in fourteenth century Verona, Italy. Medieval and Renaissance Marriage: Theory and Customs. For most people, however, marriage was a more practical matter. At the time, both of us were active on the wedding newsgroups (alt.weddings and soc.couples.wedding) and the … Arranged marriages were very common throughout the world until the 18th century. The institution of marriage in the Renaissance Period was both ... Shakespeare's time period marked a time where marriage was an important aspect of people's lives. In the middling classes, especially, marriages typically took place only after a period of service or apprenticeship, which could last into the early or even mid-twenties and allowed individuals time to gain the experience and financial resources necessary to establish a new household. On the first hand: Secular, because it served as a union of two parties which searched for the acquisition of money or properties. Typically, marriages were arranged by parents, grandparents or other relatives. For example, it was considered foolish to marry for love, and strangely enough, those who were of lower classes were more likely to have a choice in who they married. Engagement, marriage, child birth. The Renaissance view of marriage had little to do with love. Foreword. The Council of Westminster decreed in 1076 that no man should give his daughter or female relative to anyone without priestly blessing. Renaissance marriages were often held at the bride's house. Indeed, we can to distinguish the two different sides of marriage in the Renaissance period. Later councils would decree that marriage should not be secret but held in the open. Romeo and Juliet show the traditional marriage norms of the elite during the Renaissance. Couples belonging to the nobility would have their weddings in medieval castles. This paper arose from a collaboration which I entered into with B.J. Marriage in Elizabethan times appeared to be similar to marriages of today, in that some of the traditions have remained constant; however, a closer look reveals many key differences. Poets described love as an overpowering force, both spiritual and sexual. Indeed, it was both secular and sacred — this could appear paradoxical, because these two words seem to be contradictory. 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